Concept: Possession of money leads to access to goods and services, with more money leading to greater access. Possession of money can also lead others to think of the owner as being of greater value to society because, generally, a person earns more with the greater value they produce in their profession. Exceptions to the rules are narcissists. They will cut corners and aim to build relationships with those who earn money, so they can access money without putting in their fair share of the work.

How this counteracts a narcissist’s insecurities: Money combats narcissists’ inner shame because it is an implicit measure of worth. It also satisfies a narcissist’s needs and eases the narcissist’s fears of not having necessities.

Examples:

1. A nephew hopes a rich uncle will die soon to gain his inheritance.
2. The Tinder Swindler
3. A legislator threatens to introduce a bill that would punish a company unless the company contributes to the Super PAC he runs.

Advice: Watch your wallets around narcissists. They do not have moral limits to stop themselves from taking your money through deception or force.

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