Concept: Narcissists gravitate to positions of authority over others. Not only does a position of authority offer the chance to prove to others the narcissist’s inherent superiority, but it also offers the use the force that position includes to get others into compliance with the narcissist’s wishes. Using force and doling out consequences and punishment mainly drive a narcissist to a position of authority.

How this counteracts a narcissist’s insecurities: The force that comes with a position of authority ease the difficulties of getting others to perform acts that fulfill the narcissist’s needs. For example, a supervisor does not need to spend time convincing a subordinate to act but can instead hold the punishment of terminating the subordinate’s job for non-compliance.

Examples:

1. A police officer chokes a man selling loose cigarettes.
2. A pastor explains that he knows God’s teachings so well the congregation should leave their positions for him to define.
3. A teacher verbally abuses students.

Advice: Looks for signs of narcissism in authority figures. If you see them, try to avoid dealing with this person as much as possible. If your boss is a narcissist, perhaps look for a transfer or another job.

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